4 Facts Friday: Let Your Softness Be Your Strength

4 Facts Friday: Let Your Softness Be Your Strength

Posted by Brecklee Gale on

When you cradle a child or offer a listening ear, your softness is fueled by oxytocin—the “love hormone” that not only deepens bonds but also strengthens your own emotional resilience. Our greatest power lies in the gentle spaces of our hearts. 
Yet, in those moments when you stand tall through challenges—navigating schedules, soothing tears, and building dreams—you tap into a fierce fortitude that science tells us is just as vital as tenderness. 
Let’s celebrate a beautiful paradox: softness as strength. A strength that is woven from the very gentleness that makes you uniquely unstoppable.

Healthy Living Tip: Morning Soul Ritual

Deep, diaphragmatic breathing soothes stress and floods our cells with oxygen, while gentle stretches open the heart and release accumulated tension. 

Simple bodyweight exercises build muscle, support bone health, and spark those mood‑lifting endorphins. Together, they create a powerful cycle of calm and resilience—nurturing your inner softness and fortifying your outer strength for whatever the day brings.

Try this morning ritual to get your day started in a body honoring way.
Morning “Vagus Nerve Activation” Ritual
  1. Soft Start (5 minutes)
    • Deep Diaphragmatic Breathing: Sit or lie comfortably, place one hand on your belly, inhale slowly through your nose for a count of 4, letting your belly rise, then exhale for a count of 6. This calms your nervous system by activating your vagus nerve and lowering cortisol. 
    • Heart‑Opening Stretch: From a seated position, interlace your fingers behind your back, draw your shoulder blades together, lift your chest, and take three full, slow breaths. This gentle stretch eases tension across your chest and shoulders.

  2. Fierce Finish (10 minutes)
    • Bodyweight Strength Moves:
      • Squats: 2 sets of 10 reps
      • Push‑ups (modified on knees if needed): 2 sets of 8 reps
      • Plank Hold: 2 × 30 seconds
    • These simple exercises build muscle, boost bone density, and release endorphins—supporting physical resilience and mental clarity.
By pairing soft (breathe + stretch) with strong (strength moves), you nurture your body and mind—honoring the alchemy of your tenderness and strength.



Recipe I'm Loving: Protein Smoothie Bowl

Soft meets strong in every spoonful of this smoothie bowl—nourishing your nervous system and fueling your muscles.

Calming Chamomile & Greens Power Smoothie

Ingredients (serves 1)

1 cup strong chamomile tea, cooled
2 ripe bananas, frozen
1 cup fresh spinach
1 avocado
2 pears
2 cucumbers
1 tsp chia + hemp seeds

Instructions

  1. Brew chamomile tea for 5 minutes, then chill in the fridge.
  2. In your blender, combine cooled tea, frozen banana and all other ingredients. Blend on high until silky‑smooth and thick.
  3. Pour into your favorite cup. Artfully top with berries and edible flowers (optional).



Natural Living: Mother's Day Wall Hanging


Crafting with kids can bring families closer and create lasting memories. Make a special Mother’s Day Wall Hanging to give to that special mom or mom figure. You can even use items you already have in your house. The kiddos will love it (and so will moms)!

What You’ll Need
 

A small branch (4–8 inches long), cleaned and dried
Soft yarn in 2–3 colors (wool, cotton, or recycled yarn)
Natural feathers or faux feathers
Wooden beads (optional)
Scissors
Craft glue (non‑toxic)
Ribbon or twine for hanging

Step‑by‑Step

  1. Let kids collect a sturdy branch from the yard or park. Wipe off any dirt and let it fully dry.
  2. Tie one end of your first yarn color to the branch.
    • Wind the yarn around the branch in any pattern—diagonal stripes, random wraps, or even a zig‑zag.
    • Switch colors by simply tying on new yarn and continuing the wrap.
  3. Cut 6–8 strands of yarn, each about 8 inches long. Fold them in half and loop them onto the branch with a lark’s-head knot.
    • Thread a feather (or two) onto the end of each yarn tail and secure with a drop of craft glue.
    • Slide on wooden beads before the glue dries for extra texture.
  4. Tie a length of ribbon or twine to each end of the branch so it hangs straight. Knot securely.
  5. Invite kids to tie on a small tag or write a love note on a thin strip of paper and attach it among the yarn strands.




Something I'm Pondering: Softness & Fierce Strength


This Mother’s Day, I am reflecting on all the mother figures who’ve walked alongside us—our grandmothers whose stories ripple through our veins, the aunts who wrapped us in laughter and homemade dinners, the teachers whose patient hands guided our trembling first steps on chalk‑dusty floors, and the friends who held space when our hearts felt too heavy to carry alone. Each of them carried that alchemy of softness and fierce strength: the gentlest lullaby and the boldest rallying cry in the same breath. May you continue to be well loved and cherished in all the mothering roles you play. 
 
Wishing you a wonderfully full and blessed Mothers Day. 


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